Archive for category Emotion

Addicted to New Things.

Posted by NJ on Wednesday, 2 December, 2009

I have bought a few new things lately, a new car as I had to replace the old one it was costing a fortune to maintain, though I could have bought a second hand car though the new one had a much better deal with a warranty and more reliable.

But then I went out or I should say rang up and updated my phone to match my new car, well that was my thinking anyway, now I want more new stuff I feel as I am becoming addicted to aquiring new items to replace the old.

The question and point I am getting to is I have this feeling I may get addicted to buy new things, trying hard not I even leave the credit card at home to slow down the spending, I am even looking for reasons to spend more on me, wanting to buy a christmas present for my self rather than finding presents for my family and friends.

Am I become selfish only wanting to please my self, how many other have an addiction to following the marketing and finding those shiny new materialistic objects to just have something either though they are useful and fun!

Falling Into Place

Posted by NJ on Wednesday, 22 April, 2009

When you just find everything just falls into place, everything comes together and you accomplish a lot, but from the begining it’s like your trying fitting a square block into a round hole and it’s not going to happen then out of nowhere the round hole appears to change size oor becomes a square and the universe shines on you. Read the rest of this entry »

Positive Negative Ego

Posted by NJ on Wednesday, 11 March, 2009

I have spoken about ego before but I feel that there is a space that people do not understand about ego, is that it is always present, though at different levels for different situations and being it a positive or negative ego at the time, do you feel hurt by what some one says or positive when someone complements you, this is actually your ego thought and some people I have noticed dwell on positive or the negative ego. Read the rest of this entry »

When the Time comes to Take Action

Posted by NJ on Saturday, 28 February, 2009

When you finally plan out your actions in your thoughts and are processed into an emotion, you finally take action, you sit there and then sometimes stand up and take a stand or a step it is your choice, in a certain direction, to take the action necessary to accomplish the task at hand, this is where most people just give up and drop everything through fear or excuses which is really just fear hidden. Read the rest of this entry »

Interpretation Words Body Language

Posted by NJ on Wednesday, 11 February, 2009

Interpreting what some else is saying or doing, is all about the what is in your head not what is in there head or heart, the intention of the other person is not always or may never be to hurt the other but just a statement or even they may be just looking for a reaction from you, so why do we interpret what most people are supposedly feeling? Read the rest of this entry »

Wanting

Posted by NJ on Wednesday, 4 February, 2009

Most people want something and some people want everything, but do we really want it, do we deserve what we get when we finally achieve our goals? The fact is we all deserve what we strive for and get no matter who you are, all we need to do is realize that getting what we want is something that can be achieved and being grateful for what we do achieve. Read the rest of this entry »

Messege from the Pleiadians

Posted by NJ on Friday, 28 November, 2008

This is a deeper more in depth description on yesterdays meaning of god and the universe, if you get bored and fall to sleep watching its ok, I did the same thing, but it is interesting and informative.e

The Pleiadians are an alien race who travel over the universe spreading what they have learnt, but are not as believable as the Greys or Grays because they don’t fit the scary alien look and they do not kidnap people, any way enough of the jokes, Watch the Video and enjoy.

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Moments

Posted by NJ on Sunday, 23 November, 2008

Moments in time, the rhythm of life we may notice that sometimes we are actually unaware of what is in our surroundings, we daydream as well as just zoning out and we get what we need to get done, when we are are tired we seem to do this more.

They say we should live for the moment, live in the moment, we should live in the future and see what is coming next not to far as you will send your self mad, just a moment or two in front, its what a lot of sport and chess players do look a few moves forward just to see what’s coming in front of you.

Experiencing and enjoyment of a moment no matter what the moment it is, good or bad, be grateful for the moment and enjoy, experience your emotions for what they are, it’s hard but you must not let the emotion control you it’s only a thought, attempt to change it to just being grateful for the moment at hand.

The past is not important in the moment, it is only there to look back on, and not to live by, to understand the lessons learned but what is done is done, and we need to move on to the moment and then look foward to a brighter future, a few moments ahead, if we all learnt to do this we simply be less destructive and live more rewarding.

If you haven’t learnt to live by the moment you need to read the Power of Now by or any of Deepak Chopras books, there are so many briliant books out there that I won’t tell you everthing, to experience for yourself is the best and only way to understand who you are.

LIVE FOR THE MOMENT.

Weather

Posted by NJ on Tuesday, 18 November, 2008

Weather affects our moods in a variety of ways but everyone seems to approach different types of weather in different ways, its sunny out may mean that it’s hot if in summer and some will associate it with the beach and fun and others look at it as avoiding the sun and staying inside with the air conditioner on all day.

Storms, personally I love storms to a point, I like the thunder shaking my body and the lightning lighting the night sky, I love the power of the wind and the sound it makes whistling past the houses and power lines, but for people who have lost houses or loved ones in violent storms this would bring sorrow and maybe fear.

But we can’t have it all as some of us would like it, if your a sun person who worships RA you would love it to be sunny everyday, but we need the rain, people who love heavy downpours these cause floods and so on, so to have balance in our life’s we must realize that we are like the weather.

We have moods, we are stormy one day and calm and blue sky’s the next, we have troughs and lows as well as highs where we are so happy and in ecstasy that we ignore the devastation that we left last week when we were in a low, so always remember that all have a different pattern and different seasons, which we all need to work through to gt to the next one.

Don’t forget to clean up the destruction after a cyclone typhoon hurricane tornado tidal wave tsunami that may have been you who caused the turmoil within another person like a tectonic plate in an earthquake.

The Truth of Lies

Posted by NJ on Monday, 10 November, 2008

What is the truth, in most peoples mind everyone is wrong and your the only one that is right, its al about perspective of your own views, the distinction between a lie and the truth is they evidence.

Where can we find this evidence to find the truth, the truth is out there as they say, but how do we decipher between the both, there is one way we can all do this a with a lot of effort and practice, it all has to do with filtering the words that are spoken.

One persons view point can be completely different from a another persons, so what we need to do is to let go of our ego and follow our heart and emotions to find the truth, but how does this work, wouldn’t allowing people to use emotions to decipher the truth make it worse.

Not if they actually learnt and understand that the ego is the options in the process, every moment of our lives we do a survey on the situation we are in, the ego gives you the one we listen to the first the most prominent thought, this is what we first think in our minds, and most people react to this first thought.

Checking your emotion prior to speaking and finding the most appropriate thought to suit the most loving emotion to respond to your truth, then the lies in your life will dissipate over time, and you will be only living in the truth and love.

Living this way will remove those emotions that we no longer need, this is the next evolution we need to conquer to make us we we really are and to make this a better world to live in.