But then I went out or I should say rang up and updated my phone to match my new car, well that was my thinking anyway, now I want more new stuff I feel as I am becoming addicted to aquiring new items to replace the old.

The question and point I am getting to is I have this feeling I may get addicted to buy new things, trying hard not I even leave the credit card at home to slow down the spending, I am even looking for reasons to spend more on me, wanting to buy a christmas present for my self rather than finding presents for my family and friends.

Am I become selfish only wanting to please my self, how many other have an addiction to following the marketing and finding those shiny new materialistic objects to just have something either though they are useful and fun!

What is the recipe for this thought and emotion….and a lot of, Patients and lots of it, but with time we all eventually master the balance that we call unexpected problems in life and with time all wounds heal, but we have allow them to heal as there are no quick fixes or mircles until we learn to master our thought and emotion.

So when things just fall into place it ends in a mircle from inside you and is expressed outwardly, no one else can heal you or your problems, it is just you and you alone that needs to do the work.

The devolopment of ones ego can sometimes be overwhelming but its all comes down to your thought processes and teaching the ego, just as you teach a child to devolop morals, repeatative and consitant teachings, to teach your ego to be positive trade your thoughts and teach it each time you have a negative thought and or emotion.

Some people are naturals, such as charismatic and socially apt people, but a lot of us have to work hard just to make it through the day without being frustrated or annoyed at people that say something a certain way or speal there mind or wonder why they get by easily, maybe they just have a positive ego.

The fact is you never know if you don’t take that step, it feels right but the thought process is telling you its not your heart tells you its right, until that last thought hits that emotional threshold and then you gone you have lost it all, but it doesn’t have to be that way, you can just barge through it and find that there was nothing at all to worry about, or you can just change that negative thought into a positive thought.

So when are you going to stop planning and start taking action, I have for most of my life and I used excuses, now I just enjoy the ride, enjoy every moment in my life, I have stopped observing and have starting acting, not TV acting, but the action of taking part in life, start creating something that’s yours it doesn’t have to be a big production it can be painting the house the colour you want, with upsetting the neighbors of course.

Acting on your dreams and plans is all about creating them in matter, take dreams from the spirit and make the creation in the matter, and that’s whats its all about this thing called life, to move mountains we must first dream the solution do to so!

They fact is most people do react to what others say and what your body language is, it could be because your pet chewed up your favourite pair of shoes or pooed at the back door who knows what actually happened to you are them in the preceeding day or week, they are not going to tell you there life story in a quick 2 min outburst, though I know some people who do, because its there choice to be in the mood they are in.

Why then do we always choose the negative, why not choose the positive and be positive towards others no matter what they are feeling emotionally, as well its only there body language that is only trying to show you there emotion, people say I am always grumpy and depressed, I work night shift so I am always tired and lacking sleep though emotionally I am not grumpy or depressed, well sometimes I am but usually not for long.

Your interpretation of what someone means or what mood they are in will most probably be misinterpreted most of the time, so if your find offence or are confused about or even concerned, you should speak to them and find out why this person is in the situation, speak to the person as they are a living being as you are, it’s no good for anyone if you just make things up in your head and then making a fool of yourself when you tell everyone else except for the person that you are inappropriately confused about.

To achieve what we want we must go through a process of not wanting and choosing thought then the emotion to make it a reality, but how many of us actually consciously follow this process, most of us do not even know the process is going on in us and learning to connect to the higher self or even realising the global consciousness plays a part in our wanting decision.

Then how do we choose not to choose? Why not meditate over decisions, using meditation as a life tool to help you make a decision is always a good way ask the questions you need to ask, for example will this benefit me in the future? or Will this make me more attractive to my partner? will I find this useful? Allow your subconscious to give you the answers and if your able go to the higher self quickly for an answer as well.

But wanting is only something of a temporary thing, but if the wanting continuous make it a goal in life to achieve that want, and enjoy the fruits of your achievements, all in all you are guided but you have a choice to make a decision when it may make you happier in life by achievement and experience the moment because its always a good reflection on your self if you experience something you love.

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They say we should live for the moment, live in the moment, we should live in the future and see what is coming next not to far as you will send your self mad, just a moment or two in front, its what a lot of sport and chess players do look a few moves forward just to see what’s coming in front of you.

Experiencing and enjoyment of a moment no matter what the moment it is, good or bad, be grateful for the moment and enjoy, experience your emotions for what they are, it’s hard but you must not let the emotion control you it’s only a thought, attempt to change it to just being grateful for the moment at hand.

The past is not important in the moment, it is only there to look back on, and not to live by, to understand the lessons learned but what is done is done, and we need to move on to the moment and then look foward to a brighter future, a few moments ahead, if we all learnt to do this we simply be less destructive and live more rewarding.

If you haven’t learnt to live by the moment you need to read the Power of Now by or any of Deepak Chopras books, there are so many briliant books out there that I won’t tell you everthing, to experience for yourself is the best and only way to understand who you are.

LIVE FOR THE MOMENT.

Storms, personally I love storms to a point, I like the thunder shaking my body and the lightning lighting the night sky, I love the power of the wind and the sound it makes whistling past the houses and power lines, but for people who have lost houses or loved ones in violent storms this would bring sorrow and maybe fear.

But we can’t have it all as some of us would like it, if your a sun person who worships RA you would love it to be sunny everyday, but we need the rain, people who love heavy downpours these cause floods and so on, so to have balance in our life’s we must realize that we are like the weather.

We have moods, we are stormy one day and calm and blue sky’s the next, we have troughs and lows as well as highs where we are so happy and in ecstasy that we ignore the devastation that we left last week when we were in a low, so always remember that all have a different pattern and different seasons, which we all need to work through to gt to the next one.

Don’t forget to clean up the destruction after a cyclone typhoon hurricane tornado tidal wave tsunami that may have been you who caused the turmoil within another person like a tectonic plate in an earthquake.

Where can we find this evidence to find the truth, the truth is out there as they say, but how do we decipher between the both, there is one way we can all do this a with a lot of effort and practice, it all has to do with filtering the words that are spoken.

One persons view point can be completely different from a another persons, so what we need to do is to let go of our ego and follow our heart and emotions to find the truth, but how does this work, wouldn’t allowing people to use emotions to decipher the truth make it worse.

Not if they actually learnt and understand that the ego is the options in the process, every moment of our lives we do a survey on the situation we are in, the ego gives you the one we listen to the first the most prominent thought, this is what we first think in our minds, and most people react to this first thought.

Checking your emotion prior to speaking and finding the most appropriate thought to suit the most loving emotion to respond to your truth, then the lies in your life will dissipate over time, and you will be only living in the truth and love.

Living this way will remove those emotions that we no longer need, this is the next evolution we need to conquer to make us we we really are and to make this a better world to live in.