Archive for category Judgement

Mind Judgments

Posted by NJ on Wednesday, 8 July, 2009

Making pre informed judgments, jumping to conclusions before you find out all the facts, how many people do this, most of of us do, how many of us express our views verbally before we have time to realise the mistake we are making, some of of us, how many people feel compelled to keep making these judgments after the facts have been shown to make themselves look less of a fool? Read the rest of this entry »

Falling Into Place

Posted by NJ on Wednesday, 22 April, 2009

When you just find everything just falls into place, everything comes together and you accomplish a lot, but from the begining it’s like your trying fitting a square block into a round hole and it’s not going to happen then out of nowhere the round hole appears to change size oor becomes a square and the universe shines on you. Read the rest of this entry »

Blaming Others

Posted by NJ on Friday, 17 April, 2009

Take responsibility and stop blaming others

It’s your life it’s your responsibility.

Interpretation Words Body Language

Posted by NJ on Wednesday, 11 February, 2009

Interpreting what some else is saying or doing, is all about the what is in your head not what is in there head or heart, the intention of the other person is not always or may never be to hurt the other but just a statement or even they may be just looking for a reaction from you, so why do we interpret what most people are supposedly feeling? Read the rest of this entry »

The Quote That Got Lost

Posted by NJ on Thursday, 15 January, 2009

Quoting is one of pet hates, you read from a book or watch a movie listen to a song and you think to yourself that sounds smart, we all know where it come from, then you have the people you quote from ancient text and think it is right because it was written by people we have never meet and will never talk to yet some of us think they are write and unwavering there writings. Read the rest of this entry »

Resolutions

Posted by NJ on Tuesday, 30 December, 2008

Well its nearly a new year but why do some of us make new year resolutions at this time of year, are we just coming down from the high of Christmas and have the need to judge or change our self’s, shouldn’t a resolution be made when you are ready to make that transformation in your life? How many people actually make those said changes and how committed can you be when the first thing you do is make a promise to your self that can not be kept. Read the rest of this entry »

Delusional Judgement #2

Posted by NJ on Friday, 5 December, 2008

People may appear delusional at times, or even find themselves in a delusional state, finding out that life is not what it seems, understanding that peoples perceptions can be arrogant and delusional, but the fact is they may think you are the delusional one for not taking on their perception of time and space, finding out that your perception of things are different to everyone else’s, this can be a mind struggle to accept some one else’s point of view.

Calling someone delusional is in fact a judgement as it is an assumption that sanity is normal and you have the right path all sorted and you are they perfect subject for the human race, you know all and there is nothing else to learn is why we judge on delusion, the fact that we hide our fears or even acknowledge them is delusional in it’s self , then who is truly delusional, as delusions are part of life when you are unsure of how you perceive reality ( What ever that is? ) as it is not an illusion but it is your perception.

I see the person that is not seeking to either improve them selves or even search for answers of who we are and why we are here, the point being we are all delusional at some point in our lives, we all must accept that we need to be to move forward, but to judge some on else on being delusion is none of our business unless you are asked for your opinion as we are all on a journey being delusional is a part of our learning experience.

Always Right Judgement #1

Posted by NJ on Saturday, 29 November, 2008

People who think there always right, and people who think everyone else is always right and attacks them with vengeance to prove them wrong when they did not even join in on the discussion, is this really necessary when judgement has been passed and a view has been expressed without even thinking it through.

The frustration between the two parties involoved get to an angry state, not because either of them are right or wrong, it’s because the judgement has been made.