There is no such thing as control, there is a control switch but it is an illusion, it can be taken away from you or anyone at anytime, all you have to do is learn to do this, by being in the othere persons illusion and not taking the emotional side on.

As soon as you enter the emotional, you lose the illusion of control taking on the projection of what the othere person whishes to acheaive, conciously or subconciously at this point they have control, there are two ways to bring them to your emotional thought level.

Promote, you are giving them a false sense of security, as in saying I agree what would you wish for such an such to happen, how do you wish to accomplish the set goals, and then giving them the motivation and spin to your way adding, yes you can do that and walk away. The person has lost control and he is doing your work for you, Don’t try this with your boss who pays your wage. :p

Attack, attacking someone is sometimes cruel but is it not cruel to control a person who is free and should have free will to decide themselves.

You are giving them a false sense of security, as in saying I agree what would you wish for such an such to happen, how do you wish to accomplish the set goals, and then giving them the motivation and spin to your way adding, yes you can do that and walk away. The person has lost control and he is doing your work for you, Don’t try this with your boss who pays your wage. :p

Using these to toghether can influence the way they react, if the attack does not work promote them to drop there guard. Gain control of your life today, say no to control.