Interpreting what some else is saying or doing, is all about the what is in your head not what is in there head or heart, the intention of the other person is not always or may never be to hurt the other but just a statement or even they may be just looking for a reaction from you, so why do we interpret what most people are supposedly feeling?

They fact is most people do react to what others say and what your body language is, it could be because your pet chewed up your favourite pair of shoes or pooed at the back door who knows what actually happened to you are them in the preceeding day or week, they are not going to tell you there life story in a quick 2 min outburst, though I know some people who do, because its there choice to be in the mood they are in.

Why then do we always choose the negative, why not choose the positive and be positive towards others no matter what they are feeling emotionally, as well its only there body language that is only trying to show you there emotion, people say I am always grumpy and depressed, I work night shift so I am always tired and lacking sleep though emotionally I am not grumpy or depressed, well sometimes I am but usually not for long.

Your interpretation of what someone means or what mood they are in will most probably be misinterpreted most of the time, so if your find offence or are confused about or even concerned, you should speak to them and find out why this person is in the situation, speak to the person as they are a living being as you are, it’s no good for anyone if you just make things up in your head and then making a fool of yourself when you tell everyone else except for the person that you are inappropriately confused about.